I had a friend, lets call her Tina, that said some rather hurtful things about me and I really no longer consider her my friend.  We have same of the same friends and just before Martini Party 2007 Skot asked if I had got in touch with Tina.  I told him, no, she’s dead to me.  It’s a really strong statement, to say that you don’t care if you ever see someone again nor do you care to hear about their life or how they are doing.  So I thought about it.  Did I really mean it?  We’ve been through so much together; jobs, boyfriends, single times, vacations, deaths of loved ones, all the highs and lows that life brings.  The answer is yes, I do mean it.  I’m not a total dick head.  I do hope she gets what she wants out of life but I don’t need her in my life with her negativity and not so kind comments.

So, I have to ask anyone who reads this, am I a cold bitch?  Is it wrong to just cut someone out of your life?  I mean people come and go in our lives.  Some people like family will always be there because they are family.  Some friends will always be a part of my life regardless of what happens.  Tina’s just not one of them.  Sometimes you just have cut your losses and move away from relationships that are either one-sided or not healthy, don’t you?